Is it normal for men to prefer
masturbation over sex with their partners even with a healthy sex drive? A
million dollar question, yeah?
Research has proven that “great
sex” revolves around feeling connected, rather than any one physical
technique. A man cannot feel connected to his partner and choose masturbation
over sex. There has to be a definite lack of connection in your sex life as
well as in your communication with your better half for masturbation to be the
case.
In a healthy relationship, partners
want each other to be happy. If your man prefers masturbation over sex with
you, the option is to explore with him and find out reasons for the
dissatisfaction. While many couples engage in masturbation together and
separately, it’s not healthy for it to replace shared mutual pleasure.
We say this because masturbation is
as good as being a single man seeing as he gets to ‘self-service’ himself. In
this light, if your partner prefers masturbation to sex then you can as well
accept your single fate. Yes, single fate. It sounds tough but it is what it
is.
What does your man prefer though?
Share your thoughts via the comment section below.
