For a lot of men that
are still in the game, getting to have sex with a lady without any form of
emotion or expectation is the apex of being a player in the game. It is
apparent that a lot of complications could arise as a result of having sex but
the thrill that comes with getting easy sex, especially if it comes from a hot
and pretty girl dampens any form of thought of a complicated aftermath.
However, this doesn’t
mean that all we men want is sex as quite a number of us want the jot that
comes with having a relationship. We however sometimes want an uncomplicated
situation where both parties enjoy the mutual benefits of sexual intimacy which
is preferable to the complications that come along with serious relationships.
So, if you as a guy are
interested in getting a girl that will provide “no strings sex” and wondering
how you can sustain an uncomplicated relationship with her, the following tips
are guaranteed to provide relative success in your endeavour.
Ensure you pick the
right girl
The first thing you should have at the back of your mind is that not all girls
are the same. The stage at which the girl is and the circumstances surrounding
her at the moment will have a great effect on whether she’s a candidate for “No
strings attached sex”. Generally, girls that are in their early twenties are
relatively more carefree and have very little concern regarding the ticking of
their biological clocks.
They are good candidates for casual and adventurous
relationships and are thus ideal. More so, girls that recently ended their relationships
are also ideal picks. The reason for this is that they want to have sex but are
not strong to go through the emotional turmoil they had in their previous
relationship and as such will easily opt for casual sex.
The women folk are biologically wired to be horny and almost all love sex. The
only thing that is needed on your part is to be the right guy at the right
place and time.
Show from the start
that all you want is sex
This might be a little difficult, but ensure that you make it clear from the
onset that all you want is sex and nothing more than that. Try as much as
possible not to act as if you want a potential loving relationship. Ensure that
you make it explicitly clear during conversations that you want her body not
her emotions. For instance, if she says she’s in a relationship, simply tell
her that ” I have no intentions of stealing you away from him.” This will pass
on the message that you’re interested in her but don’t want the complications
associated with a relationship.
Moreover, it is essential you make a move for sex by the second or third date
at the latest. This is so because neither of you are assessing the others
suitability as an ideal spouse but are looking to get on to knowing if either
is a source of sex that would satisfy your both your cravings without
complications.
Never act like her
boyfriend
It is pertinent you watch the way you behave around her the first few times as
this will help her assess what part of her life she wants you to be in. Avoid
doing things that Boyfriends do such as making her a meal, buying her
gifts and taking her out as not doing these things will make her realise what
you really want. It’s cool for you to call her and request she comes over to
your place without prior notice. Take note however not to call her often in
quick succession and ensure you do not ask about other guys she may be seeing.
This however doesn’t mean you both can’t have fun together as you can take her
for a walk or drinks and talk about what’s happening in your professional lives
then go home after that and have awesome sex. But make sure you spell it out
that the reason for going out is not to socialise but to have sex.
To be continued…
